Sunday, February 6, 2011

“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness!"


Jay Travels




1. What message do have for students who want to travel?
[Jay]  Use this opportunity to explore the world and gain new/different perspectives – it will be of great importance in your business career and possibly personal lives.


2. What are your childhood memories of travel ?
[Jay]  I didn’t travel much as a child, which is probably why I do so much now.  Of the few trips we were able to take, my fondest memories wee of spending time with my mother.


Mexico



3. Where did you dream of traveling when you were a child?
[Jay]  I hadn’t really thought about raveling beyond the city limits of Chicago.  I had no idea that most of the country didn’t look like my hometown – I was shocked when I first saw cows in Illinois during a road trip to Carbondale.  This is the mindset I’m working to change – not just with children but with adults as well.

4. Did you travel as a child?
[Jay]  See above


5. What did you learn as a child about the expectation for black people to travel?
[Jay]  NA

6. Did you admire or know of any Black people that traveled when you were a child?
[Jay]  No one I knew really traveled.

7. Why should Black people travel?
[Jay]  The world is a beautiful, ugly, exciting, relaxing, sensual, dangerous and wonderful place!  By experiencing other environments, cultures and customs – you will likely enhance your own life in some way; whether that be the memories of visiting an amazing location, learning a new language, becoming a better conversationalist – the list is endless.

Jetski


8. What was your first trip?
[Jay]  My first trip outside of the state of Illinois was to Disneyland in California with my mother.  My first trip out of the country was to the Bahamas (I’m ignoring my 2 min stay in Windsor, Canada)

Hollywood


9. How did you plan for it?
[Jay]  I didn’t plan for Disneyland, I was a child.  The Bahamas trip was a cruise I won from my job, so very little planning there as well.


10. What was your experience there?


a) positive experience -[Jay]  First time out of the country – so it was an exciting experience.

b) negative experience-[Jay] I learned I don’t care much for cruises.  Being trapped on-board a ship for hours on end where someone nickels & dimes you for everything isn’t my idea of fun.

11. Was your travel experience what you expected?
[Jay]  Overall, it was a good experience.


12. How is your travel experience as a Black traveler different from what you perceive as a White traveler?[Jay]  I’ve never been a white traveler.

13. What is your voice as a Black travel blogger?
[Jay]  My motto has become “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness”.

Skydive

14. Where do you dream of traveling now? Why?
[Jay]  My remaining Bucket List is Vietnam (I’d like to see both Hanoi & Saigon 40 years after the war) and Antarctica (because it’s the only continent I haven’t visited).

Friday, February 4, 2011

"Traveling is life affirming and life changing!"

A View To A Thrill
Renee King
http://aviewtoathrill.net/

Renee King at Eiffel Tower

1. What message do have for students who want to travel?  
I believe that traveling opens up possibilities in one's life.  I believe it makes you braver and more likely to take on challenges that you are bound to face in your lifetime.

2. What are your childhood memories of travel ?   
My earliest memories of traveling was sitting in the backseat of our family station wagon and watching my daddy drive us to visit family members up north.  We lived in Alabama, so it was always a treat to just get away and see something that was totally different from my own backyard.

3. Where did you dream of traveling when you were a child? 
I'd always wanted to travel outside of the United States.  I thought going somewhere exotic was exciting and something that I definitely wanted to experience.

4. Did you travel as a child? 
As a child, we only took road trips.  I was twenty nine years old before I ever flew on a plane.  I was a late bloomer!

5. What did you learn as a child about the expectation for black people to travel?  
The lessons were subtle.  I really didn't know anyone who traveled on a regular basis.  I think the prevailing attitude was that it was too expensive and you know black folks didn't have money to spare...at least that's what everyone was convinced of.

Moulin Rouge Paris


6. Did you admire or know of any Black people that traveled when you were a child? Quite frankly, I didn't know any black people who traveled for the sake of traveling.  Most only traveled when someone was sick or had died.  It was strictly for specific purposes, never for pleasure.

7. Why should Black people travel? 
I believe that when you limit yourself to a certain geographic area, you are cheating yourself.  There is a great big world out there waiting to be seen.  The world isn't reserved for certain people.  It belongs to all of us.  We all have the right to travel, to explore new environments, to learn about other cultures and beliefs.  I believe traveling makes you a better citizen of the world.  It allows you to see that there is so much more out there besides what you see in your neighborhood.  You are doing yourself a disservice to not explore, to not be curious about the world around you.

8. What was your first trip? 
As a child, my first trip was to New York City.  As an adult, my first independent trip was to Los Angeles, CA.

9. How did you plan for it? 
First, I searched for the best airfare that I could find.  I did research on the city and knew in advance that I would want to take a Hollywood Tour, visit Graumann's Chinese Theater, Rodeo Drive and Beverly Hills.  I kept all of the information that I could find in a binder.  I can't stress enough how important it is to research your destination.  It's fun and it creates a checklist of things that you must do while you are there.  This trip marked the first time that I used Priceline to book my hotel.  I got a great deal for $60.00 per night!

10. What was your experience there?
It was magical.  I didn't get to see any Hollywood stars, although I thought I saw Tom Cruise riding his motorcycle...though I can't swear to that.

a) positive experience -
Viewing all of the celebrity homes was top on my list.  I was pleasantly surprised to see that the people were very friendly too.

b) negative experience- 
I got sick on the plane ride home.  I think the food that I ate before boarding didn't agree with me.

Loire Valley, France


11. Was your travel experience what you expected? Yes!  I was really excited to see that place that I had only heard about on television all of those years.  It made the city real for me.  I was there.  I walked its sidewalks.  It was an exhilarating experience!

12. How is your travel experience as a Black traveler different from what you perceive as a White traveler?
I will admit to some reluctance when I first began to travel seriously.  I wondered if I would be viewed as suspect when I traveled.  I wondered if people would look at me in a foreign land the same way they did in my country of birth.  Let's face it.  There is a serious racial problem in the United States.  Whites make assumptions about our character on a daily basis.  I feared that I would get the same attitude from whites abroad.  I was wrong.  It was so pleasant.  I never had to focus on how I would be perceived.  I was just treated as a human being.  It was nice to go from place to place not feeling as if my race was at issue.  I'm not saying every place is perfect, but in my limited experience, I had no problems with being treated differently. 


13. What is your voice as a Black travel blogger?
I think it's important to encourage travel PERIOD.  My blog isn't really focused on any one race.  My hope is to try to inspire the gift of travel in everyone.  The gift is learning about how beautiful mother earth is and how it would be a shame to leave it without  having seen so many things that she has to offer.  I want to show everyone of all races, that everyone of all races has the RIGHT to travel.  You should never limit yourself, always try to challenge any limits placed upon you.

14. Where do you dream of traveling now? Why? 
I am planning a two week trip to China next year.  I hope to visit as many cities as I can when I get there.  We've (my daughter is my travel partner) never been to Asia, so that is the next place we plan to go.  Next up, Kenya.  I met someone who gives Safari tours there and I can't wait to go.  My ultimate goal is to visit all seven continents.  Fingers crossed!

15. Anything else you would like to add?   
Traveling is life affirming and life changing.  Get out there and see the world.  You won't regret it.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

"Just Go! You'll Be Okay! "

<>"Bella Italia"
Fleace Weaver

Fleace Weaver




Fleace's first trip was to Milan, Italy as a model. She didn't really know anyone as a child who traveled. Everything she learned about travel she learned from a book. She loved geography class as a child. When she was a little girl she traveled in her heart and in her mind.


The messages she learned as a child were you can't make it. She was taught to be very afraid of travel. She was told they are not like you. Her parents told her you'll be kidnapped by strangers

During her first trip to Milan, Italy she felt empowered as a woman. She felt strong and beautiful. She experienced the adoration of European men. She learned she could make it. She knows now that the Blue American Passport is like gold.

Fleace wants to teach other Black women that they can make it too. Fleace says if you can make it here you can make it anywhere.She takes groups of black women on tour in Milan and Paris. She has an upcoming trip to Paris in April. For more info visit BlackGirlTravel.com .



Three women from one of her trips decided to travel to Croatia. They ended up on the TV just because they were an uncommon sight. They were three black women in Croatia and that is news.

Fleace's message to children and adults is that you should just go. You will be okay.